Thoughts From the Dirty City

1. Remove one (and only one!) unsuccessful item from your wardrobe.I mentioned in my previous post I was considering one of my many bottles of OPI. But finding a bottle I was willing to part with was proving to be a bit more challenging than I figured it would be. Thankfully, I had a backup plan – jeans.We all have jeans that don’t fit, never fit, or that we are saving in hopes they will fit again. I have samplings of each of these. So I moved on to the denim drawer. Fully prepared to toss one of the offenders.  Specifically, the 7 for All Mankind jeans pictured below. It isn’t that they don’t fit. For the longest time these fell into the category of “jeans I hope to fit into again someday” Well, magically they do fit. And I do love them. However, they are worn, have paint stains and ever expanding holes. They aren’t big enough or slouchy enough to pull off any of these traits with any kind of style or intention.

   But they are comfy, and they are the “HOLY SHIT THEY FIT AGAIN” jeans. So I started to wonder…

   

   Ah memories.

   Yes. Memories. It hit me that these were not the worst offenders of hangeroner pants in my wardrobe. Nope. That award goes to these bad boys.

   

   They are so offensive I had pretty much forgotten I owned them.

   Are they khakis? Camel colored dress pants? Does it matter? Truth is, no matter what specific category they fall into, they have never looked good on me. They cling where they shouldn’t, droop in ways I didn’t think were possible…and well, the pockets. For the love of god, the pockets. They gape and hang and generally make a mockery of my hips. Goodbye ugly ill fitting pants! I will not miss you.

2. Do the opening questionnaire.
3. Find yourself some sources of inspiration on personal style.I fully admit to loving fashion mags. I have long since let my subscriptions to Vogue and Cosmo laps, but from time to time I indulge and pick up and issue that looks interesting.
   I especially love the slightly unknown/foreign ones you can pick up in bookstores.
   So yeah, the obvious: Vogue, Cosmo, Purple, Glamor, InStyle, etc.

   In addition to fashion mags I LOVE design mags like HOW. The are a great source of inspiration especially in regards to interesting color combos and up and coming designers that tend to be fashion forward.

   My favorite fashion website is http://nymag.com
   The Cut (blog).This is a great site for checking in on the latest fashion shows.

   I also love to people watch and try to make mental notes when I see something cute. (I also admit to checking out the trainwrecks and making mental notes of those putting them in the – NEVER DO THAT – category)

4. Do something that makes you feel good about your body.The mani / pedi treatment is part of my routine. It’s not so much that I feel a NEED to do it every week. I just find it relaxing and usually by the end of the week I need a mindless task like painting my nails to clear the cobwebs from the workweek.

   I would love to list that as my “feel good” task, but I sort of feel like it’s cheeting. Though I will add it has been a LONG time since I have gotten a prof. pedi and may do this very soon – but not this week.

   Instead, I’ve decided to indulge myself with a season pass to the Zoo. I’m lucky to have one about ten minutes from my house. Every summer I go a few times and usually by the end of summer I am kicking myself because for the same price of my few visits I could have had a pass and come as often as I wanted. Plus, I love the idea of spending idle weekend afternoons chilling at the zoo with my camera and sketchbook. (Imma leave out all the feelings of guilt about caged animals and stuff. Yeah it’s there. Whatever.)
   As a bonus, a pass to my local zoo will also get me into the big fancy zoo just a bit farther north.

   Hooray summer – your almost here!

This weeks Wardrobe Therapy task includes getting rid of ONE item. This is photographic proof that I am contemplating making my one item a bottle of nailpolish. There are a few bottles in that line up that don’t get worn often. But there are isn’t a single color there that NEVER got worn. And for the most part I really like all of the colors. But there are a few that are getting a little old and should be replaced. Sigh

Now I just have to decide wich one…or maybe I’ll get real and toss one of the MANY pairs of ill fitting jeans I have.

So, I’ve signed up on for some Spring Wardrobe Therapy. Consider yourself warned.

Phase one, filing out the questionnaire.

1. Thinking primarily (but not necessarily exclusively) about looks, who’s your favorite performer of your own gender and species? Why?

Dita Von Teese (street wear, not stage wear)
She has such a defined style and always looks perfectly put together and comfortable in her own skin…not to mention the pencil skirts and insanely tall footwear. She just seems so classy. Considering she pulls this off while being a stripper impresses the hell out of me.

2. If you could live in any historic era with a really good clothing budget (as well as soap, toothpaste, and delicing as needed), when would you choose?

The 40′s or the early 70′s / late 60′s hippie rock wear
I know. Could there be any two styles more different? And yet I love them both, for opposite reasons. The 40′s style is so clean and put together. Grown up and classy. The 70′s were just so laid back and comfortable. Easy and fun. No rules or inhibitions.

3. What’s your favorite painting or other form of visual art? Why?

Can I just be vague and say graphic design, especially that of the Swiss school of thought?
If forced to name a few fine artist: Bernini, Mondrian, early Picaso and Monet

4. What is your first memory in which clothes are important?

The first time I remember going shopping for new school clothes and actually getting a say in the clothes I came home with was the year before junior high. I vaguely remember some Forenza sweatshirts and County Seat. (see question #8 for visuals)

5. What is your favorite garment ever? Why?

I had a black summer dress in high school that I wore everywhere. If it was cold I threw a sweater over it. in the summers it usually got paired with a t-shirt and combat boots to “keep it real” or a pair of flats to make it appropriate. It just suited me, and the way I lived at that time perfectly. Around that same time I had a blue skirt with apples and cherries on it that I made from an old house dress purchased from the thrift store. I think I wore it just as often.

6. What is your favorite garment in your wardrobe right now?

My Pirates Cove hoodie. It is more wearable woobie than article of clothing at this point and I practically live in it. It’s not the prettiest thing I own, or even the article I think looks best on me. It’s just really comfortable and easy.

7. What is the worst clothing purchase you can remember making?

A really expensive lingerie set. It was beautiful and decadent in every way. It was also incredibly uncomfortable and looked like shit under clothing. Hence, it never got worn, and because of the nature of the garment could not be returned. I still have it and occasionally try to make it work to no avail.

8. What’s your most embarrassing clothing-related memory other than a bad purchase?

Forenza and County Seat. For an entire year (7th grade) everything I owned came from one of those two store. Pleated pants, oversized sweaters and leggings never equaled hawt on my body.

9. What body part (no more than three!) are you proud of and expect compliments on?

I would say my nails. I have long nail beds and my nails are fairly strong and solid so they don’t chip or break often. Though I do keep them on the short side. It is rare that I leave the house without a proper manicure.

10. What body part (again, no more than three!) seems to require management, if not coaxing, cajoling, and sometimes outright begging if it’s to please you?

My entire mid section, specifically my stomach. But more than that, the girls and I tend to be more foe than friend. No matter what support I give them they either rise to my chin, or seem to wilt. They make shopping for undergarments beyond challenging, and cause me some back pain. I hate that I can’t wear shirts with buttons. They never fit. They are either way to big to compensate for the girls, or are busting at the seems.

11. If you could dress however you wanted all the time, what might you include?

In my head I would love to look totally put together in a smart skirt or dress everyday.
In reality, I’m a jeans and tshirt kinda girl and given the opportunity that is probably what you would find me in.
Though I think that is mostly laziness rather than preference.

12. If you could shop at any store (or from any designer), which would you choose?

More than anything I would love to find a line of clothing that seems built for my body. It would be so nice to have a/any go to store or label and know that chances were good the clothes would fit.

But I love Rodarte and McQueen (but could never pay that kind of money for clothes and be able to live with myself)

13. Where do you ordinarily shop now?

Sadly, most of my current wardrobe is from TJMaxx and Target. Though I have a lot of thrift store finds and love digging for buried treasures in thrift and vintage shops.

14. What clothing, accessory, or prettifying need (if any) do you enjoy shopping for?

I love shopping for makeup and shoes. There is never any moment of self doubt or body loathing. Two things that I spend way more time dwelling on than I am proud of and am working on changing.
With makeup, it’s just so easy to change things up and create a whole new look that doesn’t take a whole lot of money or commitment.

15. Which one do you most loathe shopping for?
Bras. Without question. (see #7) Followed closely by pants.

16. Do you consider yourself low-, medium-, or high-maintenance?

When it comes to my clothes I am super low maintenance. More so than I would like to be.
In regards to makeup and hair I would say I am medium. I wear makeup and straighten my hair pretty much everyday.

17. What are the two most frequent occasions that you dress for and how would you describe them?

I think like most people, I have a work wardrobe and a non-work wardrobe.
My work clothes are fairly nondescript business casual. I’m not a conservative person, but the environment I work in is very conservative. I try to incorporate pieces that are a little more me but more often than not I am shooting for appropriate and comfortable more than anything.
At home I tend to lean towards jeans and tshirts. But I love color and mixing textures and styles. If I’m really trying to look nice I would say my personal non-work clothes tend to be more eclectic and funky.

18. What was your favorite Hallowe’en costume ever?

The witch costume my dad made for me when I was little. But it had way more to do with the makeup than the black sack tied at the waist with a rope. The makeup was really intricate with lots of little lines and smudges made with burned corks. By the end it looked more like I was wearing a mask than makeup.

19. What do you see as the current problem(s) with your wardrobe and/or look?

Honestly, for the past few years my weight has been shifting a lot. There hasn’t been any long periods of time when I was a consistent weight. The result is a closet full of clothes that don’t quite fit. Everything is either a little too big, too small, too short too long…you get the idea. It’s so frustrating. And it’s hard to go out shopping when I am working on changing my daily habits to be healthier and feel better about myself, and also yes, to be thinner. But there comes a point when you have to address where you are before considering where you would like to be.

20. At the end of WT, what lovely compliments do you want onlookers to give you?

More than anything I would like to feel comfortable and confident in what I am wearing and with myself in general. I guess for now, I’m more interested in being able to give myself an honest compliment than I am in getting one from onlookers.

Lately I have been really bad about getting anything accomplished on the weekends. Well, anytime really. But getting nothing accomplished on a Sunday is somehow more upseting than getting nothing accomplished on a Wednesday night.Because of this, I’ve decided to post a list every Friday of FIVE things I would like to accomplish over the weekend. Besides, I’m bored and lists are fun.

Right. So…this Friday’s five things are:

1.  Clean my bathroom – Spring time edition including the washing of all bathmats and the organizing of closet.

2. Watch one movie. I almost NEVER do this. If I decided to go for down time I end up half watching lame tv while reading crappy magazines. Hoping to make that movie the Secret of NIMH, but we’ll see.

3. Pick up odds and ends of mail that are still being delivered to my rents house. Oh and stay for a visit and hoover any and all food they may have left visible.

4. Visit the gym Saturday AND Sunday.

5.  Hit the Cuyahoga Valley for at least one hike. Providing it doesn’t rain all weekend.

I mentioned in yesterday’s post that there was a new OPI line out, and that I was on it. Actually, the line came out early February as it always does. But in the hubbub of the other new line I completely overlooked it. See, right about the same time the Spring line was released, a limited edition line dedicated to the movie Alice in Wonderland was released. I didn’t notice there were two lines and just assumed the Alice line WAS the Spring line. Silly, silly me.

First things first, the Alice and Wonderland line.

The limited edition polishes are Absolutely Alice, Mad as a Hatter, Off With Her Red! and Thanks So Muchness! True to the form of the movie, the line is crazy, over the top and full of whimsy…and glitter. I (magpie) opted for the most shimmery and sparkly of the lot.
Mad as a Hatter. And is it ever glittery. No pic can really do this polish justice. You have to see it in person to appreciate just how disco this polish really is.

To Hong Kong

Last week, or maybe the week before I realized I had missed the actual Spring line. I scoped it out online, and realized I hadn’t actually missed it at all. In fact, I had already sported one of the new shades without even realizing it.  A few weeks ago (or a month ago, time really isn’t my friend these days) I coned my friend Cookbook into going to get a mani with me. Without even thinking about it I dove for the new line. I try to go for colors I don’t already own when getting a mani, so it makes sense. I went with Jade is the New Black and LOVE LOVE LOVEd it.

But when I went to the store to pick up a bottle it dawned on me that I already own several OPI greens. And while none of them are exactly like Jade is the New Black, I still figured I should go for something a bit more crazy and different. My hand went right for the bright blue bottle of Suzi Says Feng Shui.

Side note
Last night after purchasing my new bottle I realized I own WAY more nail polish than any one person would ever need. It was a little shocking when I lined them all up (yes by color). My head started planting seeds of “no new nail polish, this has gotten insane”! But I already know I am going to be heading back for that green. I am going to try really hard to resist Panda-Monium Pink as it is strikingly similar to Mod About Pink, which I already own. Though it is a bit more purple and reminds me of one of my old, no longer available favorites, Purplink. See what I mean, totally out of control.

Today, after looking a bit more into a new project I have signed on to (Wardrobe Therapy – more on that later) I realized that perhaps instead of going cold turkey it is time to start sorting. Tossing old bottles, almost empty bottles and impulse purchase bottles of colors I know I will never wear. Clear out the cobwebs and make some room for the exciting new colors on the horizon*.

*A little birdy on the inside tells me that summer has sheer pinks lined up and a surprise collection inspired by the new Shrek movie is also in the works. I might be able to resist the sheer polish, but the bright playdogh looking bottles I am imagining for the Shrek collection will be impossible to resist.
All images courtesy of http://www.alllacqueredup.com
If your looking for detailed info on each shade, or other brands or lines…hell pretty much anything and everything nail polish you should check out this site.

Historically I have been a big believer in fancy make-up and cleansers from department stores. They smell pretty and have amazing packages. For some reason those two things combine in magical ways that make you forget how ridiculous the price tag is.

But then the economy tanked and the whole world went broke, my self included. One of the first things to go was all my fancy make-up and yummy smelly soaps. I just couldn’t justify braking bank for such obvious luxury items. And honestly, it hasn’t been so bad. Most of the make-up I found at the drug store I’ve been really happy with. There were a few disasters, but I try not to think about those as the scars are finally just about faded. Even the cleansers, toners, moisturizers and random other shit Cosmo insists I use or will crack and crumble were good to me, for a while anyway

Little by little over the past month or so some bad shit has started to happen north of my neck. I know that the real reason for the change is that the long dry NEO winter air sucked all the life outta my skin. Whatever the cause, I was desperate to do something to fix it, fast. My face was becoming a combo platter of oil, and breakouts with the added kicker of dry, red itchy patches. Hawtness.

Last week I decided to overhaul my skin care closet. I hit the department store and magpie that I am fell prey to the make-up counter as well. But being that this was not my first trip to rip off island I knew better than to fork over cash for something I had never used before (make-up wise*).  I got a sample of the product to take home with me and try first. That way if I wasn’t satisfied I could return said product hassle free. And thank god I did. Cause this shit really is a rip off. The $10 bottle of foundation I purchased at Target not only has better coverage, but it stays on longer and doesn’t smudge. Granted the unassuming bottle and lack of fragrance isn’t as exciting to play with in the morning while I get ready for work. But seriously, at those costs it should at least WORK. I guess I can chalk it up to one more lesson learned from the recession.

I will give it to the department store brands for being able to make their products smell and look so amazing on the shelf. And to be honest, I don’t know if I will ever be able to give up the fancy skin care again. After less than a week my skin is starting to clear up and even out. What can I say, the magpie in me still lives on, at least a little bit.

*They generally only give samples of liquid make-up. You know the kind you layer on like spackle. The other stuff you have to just try them out. They say you can’t return them…but I have before. At those prices they really can’t argue with much.

Additionally. I know, there is a new OPI line out. Hong Kong or something. No worries. I’m on it.

I’m not generally a huge fan of Spring lines. Too many frills and lace for my taste. This year I’m a bit buzzed about it though. I think maybe it has something to do with the extreme gray of the weather lately. Ohio feels like a science fiction movie with the total lack of sun these days. Right, fashion.

Last week in Paris designers took to the catwalk with their couture lines. Regardless of season, I am in general a fan of couture. Not so much for the pomp that surrounds it. More over, I love the artistic flair these lines tend to have. The designers aren’t super hung up on making the lines mass producible, and highly marketable. These tend to be the lines that really show off what the labels are about.  This means they can also tend to be the absolute ugliest.

This time around, I decided to do something a bit different. I’m not going through each designers line and picking through them piece by piece. Instead, I’m just making one post about the entire season summing up each label in one or two sentences.

Adeline Andre

Look guys! A couture snuggie!!!!

Anne Valerie Hash

…and all that jazz. Suddenly I miss the glory days of Liza Minnelli.

Armani Preve Couture

It is what it always is, amazing and perfectly assymilated with the label. This time with a pinch of sci-fi and a dash of just not my thing.

Boudicca

Looks like Little Bo Peep lost a little more than her sheep this round.

Chado Ralph Rucci

A really pretty line. Nothing super extraordinary, but pretty! Personally, I think it would have made a really marketable RTW line. Maybe the designer just really needed to feel fancy for a bit. We’ve all been there.

Chanel*

I am so over Chanel. Yes the clothes are amazing, but Karl Lagerfeld is such a douche that it kinda ruins it for me.

Christian Dior

It’s like Marry Poppins fell down the rabit hole and landed on Dita Von Tease. Amazing!

Elie Saab

While this isn’t really my style, I totally get it. And I don’t imagine there is a woman on earth that wouldn’t feel down right pretty in his dresses.

Givenchy Couture

The line started out so great! Dark and moody and totally glam couture. But then it just sort of fell apart for me. I dig this look though. The rest, I’m just going to pretend I walked away and didn’t see the end.

Jean Paul Gaultier Couture

Stole the mutha-flippin show. Seriously. The entire Spring 2010 Couture season now belongs to JPG. Totally haute.

Maison Martin Margeila

I don’t get it. I think maybe this is a punchline to a joke I missed or something.
*shrug*

Valentino Couture

Totally different for this label. It looks like the new designer for Valentino is finally coming into their own. I like it. Fresh and bright and… wait…hold on. I just read that it was inspired by the movie Avatar.

That is it.

I give up.

All photos courtesy of New York Mag.

*If I am going to be totally honest. Chanel was truly amazing. Breathtaking really. Especially the accesories. I just wish they would put Lagerfeld in a burka or something. Just the sight of him makes me all fighty.

Even as a student I was told that when you show a client multiple designs they are almost always going to choose the design you like the least. It was a lesson they taught us early to prevent us from even showing a design we weren’t happy or at least comfortable with. It’s like magic, no matter what you say or do the design you prefer the least will always end up being the final layout. Knowing this I stuck to the plan of never passing a design draft I wasn’t okay with. However, that means that I am almost always passing up designs I preferred to go with the one the client chose.

It got to the point that I started having long discussions trying to persuade clients to choose the design I preferred. It was during one of these conversations I realized there was an easier way around all of this. Stop showing clients anything other than the design I feel works best for the current project.  It isn’t like most clients request several rough drafts or concepts. It is just something I have always offered. It seemed like the best way to ensure the client was getting exactly what they were looking for. But the truth is, most of the time they aren’t exactly sure what they are looking for. That is why they hired a designer in the first place.

Part of being a designer is opening up dialog and figuring out what would work best for the clients situation. With good communication early on there should be no need for multiple design concepts to be passed to the client initially.

With this in mind I have been trying out a little experiment. I have only been sending what I view as the most successful concept initially. Since I have started doing this I haven’t gotten any complaints. Nor have any of the folks I am working with asked that I completely rework the design. Minor changes, especially in regards to copy are made, but for the most part almost all the concepts I have sent out have remained (for the most part) visually unchanged.

I would like to clarify that in no way does this mean I am only creating one layout and sending it off, fingers crossed that is gets approved. The only change I have made in the approach I have with each project is the initial drafting process. Where once I would send two or three initial concepts, now I only send the one I think works the best.

I can’t tell you how refreshing it has been. The clients are happy and so am I. The truth is, if you have a clear idea of what the client is looking for there is no need for multiple drafts. They just slow down the process and muddy things up. I am sure there are situations that require lost of concepts being shared (logos come to mind),  but for the most part I have found it isn’t necessary.

I think that we are all biased to the staple looks that date to our own coming of age. It was the time we really started to define our character and personal style so it is only natural that the basic/popular looks of those times will always be appealing. I’m not saying we can’t all see the error of our ways when it came to the extreme trends. No one looked good in the workout wear of the 80′s. Remember the saying, spandex is a privilege, not a right. And for the exact opposite reasons there was nothing flattering about the 90′s borrowing of dad’s flannel and pairing it with the baggiest dress one could find. This was my own personal coming of age look, paired of course with some authentic combat boots purchased at the local army surplus, the craziest most clashing tights I could find and a  dog collar (to keep it real – obviously).

While I no longer feel a need to dress in the extremes of my youth, the general feel of that era still defines my personal style. I love wearing a mixture of textures and layering in unexpected ways. And yes, I still own (and wear) Doc Martins.  Sometimes I feel a bit guilty about this and wonder if my look and taste is becoming laughably dated. I make an effort to incorporate new looks and trends into my wardrobe to keep it fresh, but still sometimes I wonder. Then the new lines start coming out and it seems there is always at least one or two pieces that give me hope that I am not in fact turning into an old fuddy duddy. This year some of my favorites included:

Proenza Schouler

and Tracy Reese

Not that everything I love has to be a throwback to the grunge era…but it doesn’t hurt.

Images from www.nymag.com
click on image for slide show of complete line

If you thought I was done talking about OPI for at least a season, well, think again. To be honest, I thought I was done for a while myself. I had my new shade to get me through fall, possibly even winter. I wasn’t even remotely considering aquiring more new polish until a friend insisted I look at Suzi Ski’s in the Perinees to see if she should buy it. That is when I first discovered it. The strangeness on the website. The shade was listed twice…and some of my other favorites were listed three time. The normal listing and then others ending in “matte” and “suede”. It was confusing, the site is all in flash and I was just trying to get a quick looksee so I didn’t realy do a lot of investigating to figure out what was up. Until this weekend that is.

So, said friend and I offed to the mall to make her purchase of  “Suzi Ski’s in the Perinees” and generally waste a weekend afternoon. I was determinded not to even really look at the display. I was just along for the ride. Then it caught my attention. A new display, NEXT to the new display. I HAD to at least look…right?! There they were, some of my favorite shades lined up in two’s. One the normal shade, and the other a Matte version. There was “Russian Navy” and “You Don’t Know Jaque” and of course, the one thing that I just couldn’t resist…”Lincoln Park After Dark”.

I know it seems silly, and a total waste of money, and maybe it was. But the idea of my all time favorite shade of nailpolish available for a limited time in a matte finish…how could I not. I mean it’s matte for crying out loud. It just ads to the dark and complex nature of the color. It de-polishes the polish!! I waivered and then finally caved in. I was sort of just about convinced that I wasn’t being a total crazy for buying yet ANOTHER bottle of nail polish when the sales girl (who, yes in fact remembers me and now knows be by name) told me that they are coming out with another variation on the best sellers. A line called Suede. It’s a matte polish with glitter. The line won’t be out in the store until next month. I keep telling myself no. No way. No how is there any way to justify yet another purchase…but only time will tell if I will actually be able to hold out. Until then, a little preview.

So, I’m still in a complete tailspin trying to catch up with all the Spring fashion goings on. I am starting to accept that I will never really be “caught up”. That’s ok though. It will give me something to do until another round of new lines comes out…right!? OK, I’m rambling.

Anyway, I’m still sifting through the shows of New York fashion week as well as moving on and ahead to the many other shows happening accross the pond. In my parusing of New Yorks offerings a few things became clear; pants are out, the 80′s are in and all my fashion sense is seemingly out the window. It was a bit harsh to realize that all the things about my own personal style may be completely unacceptable now. Usually there is room enough for everyone in fashion…well, almost everyone. Everything coming down the runway was so…classic, romantic and way, way over the top girly. I was begining to think that I was either going to have to change my ways or accept the fact that I would be completely out of the fashion loop (not that I am ever what one would call “stylish” but, whatever, you get my drift). Those that know me, know that I would rather be outcast than put on a frilly dress. But then it happened, and all my fears and quandries were

put to rest.

The Rodarte show.

I fell in love with the entire line almost immediately. Now, I’m no fool. I know I couldn’t get away with actually wearing most of the line, but that doesn’t stop me from loving it. (is this how people feel about the pantslessness? still, not acceptable) Everything about the show was the complete opposite of everything else I had seen all season. The dry ice pouring over the acid green and black runway. The gothy make-up and webish netting of the models hair all added to the extreme, bold  feel of the line.

If I had to label it, I would call it a mix of tribal and goth (but I hate labels so forget that nonsense). Each piece looked so fierce and edgy coming down the runway, and yet had the air of being incredibly delicate. It looked as if each piece was constructed on the model and would immediately fall to bits the second it was removed. The mixed uses of materials from felts, knits, leather and well pretty much everything else in between gave the line a tactile quality making it seem that much more art than clothing. And yet if I step back from the designers current presentation, I can see how these peices could work in the real word, mixed with other more conservative peices.

Now I’m not saying this is the most wearable of the lines I have seen. It was just the most appealing to me visually. Maybe it was a standout becuase it was so different from the rest of the shows, or maybe I am just a creature of habbit and tend to stick with the kinds of things I have always been drawn to. No matter why, or what made this show such a standout for me I’m glad it was there to quell my wories that come spring we will all be strutin’ around wearing shoulder pads and little else.

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Location:Firestone Park Community Center

So I am way the fuck behind. Not only is New York Fashion week over, but the London shows just wrapped up as well and the Paris shows are starting. Ugh. I have been working on a few posts covering my thoughts on the New York showings. My plan was to break it up into a few posts. One of the stuff I liked, one of the stuff I hated and the other would be for shoes and such. After starting each I realized they were starting to read like War and Peace and there was no way I was ever really going to wrap them up. There is just way too many great (and terrible) designers out there. It was making me crazy…and the posts were going  no where. So I scraped all three and have decided to take an entirely different approach. I am just going to start randomly posting about the shows a few designers at a time. In no certain order…mostly just as I remember them or stumble upon them again. I will try to remember to post what city the shows were in and all that good stuff.

To kick it all off I am going to start with the bad. The really, really, really bad. Something is happening in the fashion world. Something very vexing. There is a new trend (there usually is) to replace last years legging debacle (thank LaLohan for that one). I’m not sure how to even phrase this. It seems that designers have decided that clothing is now optional in the fashion world. You heard me correctly. It seemed like every show I watched had at least one model strutting her stuff down the runway sans pants or nipples blazing (sometimes, god forbid, both). You know that old saying show leg or cleavage, never both. Well it seems the new rule should be pants or shirt, take your pick.

I know this probably makes me seem like a complete prude but I don’t care. Who, aside from Lady GaGa, leaves the house without pants? I know that lives and schedules get busier by the day, and we have to make sacrifices to squeeze it all in, but are we really going so far as to sacrifice pants? I mean really. I don’t know a single person that would feel comfortable walking down the street in any of these gettups.  And for the ladies contemplating such gettups, cudos to your for being so balsey and confident. Just don’t say I didn’t warn you when dudes start hitting you up for your hourly rate. Personally, I’m sticking with pants.

All images are from www.nymag.com
and are from the Spring 2010 New York Fashion Week. Designers listed from left to right: Tony Cohen, Thom Brown, Julian Louie, Donna Karan, Charlotte Ronsen, Carmen Marc Valvo.

It may have come to some of your attention that I have not posted anything about my OPI addiction/collection in quite some time. Ok, probably not.  But for the purposes of my ego we will say you did. Perhaps some of you thought I kicked the habit?  Or maybe I was just so busy with my exciting and adventurous life that I just didn’t have the time to blog about my newest additions? Sadly, none of these things are true. I’m just lazy. It is shameful, but true. Well, that and I was thoroughly uninspired by the summer line. Not really all that surprising. Summer is nice and all, but fall will always have my heart.

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Most people get an itch to dust out the old and make room for the new around spring time. Makes sense. Windows have been closed for months and the long winter months give everything a packed away feel. This year, I couldn’t wait for spring and the gutting of closets and sorting of old stuffs has been consuming my evenings all week. Perhaps it was the onset of fashion week, or the shift the weather has taken, promising an end to summer and the arrival of fall. Fall always inspires me to do extremely random things. Wherever the inspiration came from I have been riding the roller coaster for days.

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I’m no great photographer by any stretch, but it seems that when I spend time taking pictures it feeds the creativity in all the other parts of my life. Not to mention there is just something wonderful in the instant gratification of photography. And nothing tops getting a great shot that completely captures a moment…or someone you really care about. Having said all that…why am I so shy about busting out my camera?

1. motivation. mainly for my art (and the confidence to call it that without feeling like a douche)

2. laughter. you know – the kind that takes over your whole body and makes your tummy ache and your eyes water

3. to get over all my stupid fears that hold me back from trying new things

4. organization. perhaps if I could find a bit more order my time wouldn’t feel so thinly spread

5. sleep. I don’t feel like I ever really get enough

6. vacation. (and not just time off. a real trip or something closely resembling one)

7. adventure. this probably could be tied into getting over my stupid fears, but my life feels like it could really use a heavy dose of adventure

8. Waking up and looking forward to going to work. I want to have a job that I love as much as weekends.

9. hugs. cause there can never really be enough

10. a puppy. I love love love the puppies, but my life isn’t really set up to properly care for one right now. soon though!

In case you didn’t know, today is St. Patty’s Day. That has never really meant much to me. I have always had to go to class or work so I have never really participated in the day long pub crawl for green beer. And I never cared enough to use vacation time to spend a day drinking myself sick. It sort of perplexed me why anyone would want to do that to themselves. It isn’t like they are really celebrating an Irish heritage…it is just about spending a day getting tanked. Honestly, I always thought it was just stupid. Just yesterday I was questioning the point of such a stupid holiday.

Today though, for some strange reason the celebration kinda makes sense to me. Now, I still don’t really have a clue what St. Patty’s day is about, nor do I care enough to google it. What I get is why people get so caught up in it. I think it is just a way to shake off the doldrums of winter and gear up for spring. This is a way to celebrate the end of a cold, gray, dank world without sky. February is historically one of the most depressing months of the year, maybe St. Patty’s day is a way to celebrate surviving the worst of it. Or maybe I have just had a really rough winter and am desperate to cling to anything with a shiny happy sentiment. In any case it makes me happy to know that the world is out there celebrating nothing at all.

So, to all those folks out there whooping it up today, have one for me!

I spend the bulk of my day sitting in a desk chair, though I hadn’t really given a whole lot of thought as to it’s comfort until recently. My first day here I sat down, adjusted the height and tested the lean to ensure I wouldn’t end up on the floor. Aside from that moment the chair wasn’t even a thought, it is just here, under my rear, day in and day out.

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Help support The Rape Crisis Center of Summit and Medina County and Join us
for the Take Back The Night Walk in Akron!
When: Friday, October 10 @ 6-9pm
Where: First Grace United Church of Christ — 350 S. Portage Path, Akron

By the by – I did the design work and would love to know what everyone thinks (I am very insecure and need lots and lots of praise for my work….hehe)

Community to march to protest violence against women

HIGHLAND SQUARE — The Rape Crisis Center of Medina and Summit Counties, Summit County Sexual Assault Coalition, University of Akron Women’s Studies Program, Akron Area NOW, Liberation in Progress (LIP) Service and members of the surrounding community will rally and march for “Take Back the Night” tonight, Oct. 10, in Highland Square.

“Take Back the Night” is an international movement that raises awareness and breaks the silence about oppression and violence against women, according to organizers.

The event is scheduled to begin at 6 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall at First Grace United Church of Christ, 350 S. Portage Path.

The evening will feature Summit County Prosecutor Sherri Bevan Walsh delivering the keynote address and Plain Dealer journalist Joanna Connors and local arts advocate Ericka Abrams sharing their personal experiences. An interpretive dance piece by choreographer Sara Schwendeman also will be featured.

Following the rally, participants will march through Highland Square and return to First Grace Church for refreshments.

This year, the event also will include children’s activities, a meditative labyrinth experience, the Clothesline Project — a visual art display created by women whose lives have been touched by violence — and the documentary film “No! Confronting Sexual Assault in Our Community,” which deals with sexual violence issues in the African-American community.

The event is free and open to the public.